Place your bets

Today is the BIG day. Well, not the BIG BIG day but we do find out whether this little sea monkey is hiding a banana or not! Whatever the sex of the baby is, we know one thing for sure — this kid if active!

Our friends have been sending advice on ways to make sure the baby is awake for the ultrasound. Drink OJ, do some exercise, eat a candy bar… all great suggestions and super appreciated but this mama is worried about the exact opposite!

Last time we went for an ultrasound our monkey was too busy doing acrobatics that the technician had a hard time taking any kind of measurements let alone get a peek at the goods. We’re hoping little one will be a little more settled this time around, with room for flips and parties a little more limited as the weeks have gone by.

Time to place your bets and hope for uncrossed legs!

Posted by mama on August 11, 2010 in Mama Corner | Permalink | Comments (0)


Sailyaking

Sailyaking, yeah we kind of made it up and it is the greatest thing to happen to this expecting mama!

In case you can’t figure out what the heck I’m talking about, Sailyaking is a combination of kayaking, sailing and surfing all wrapped up into one tricked out kayak from Costco.

Dear Hubs is an inventor through and through and just HAS to tinker with every single thing his hands come in contact with. It wasn’t really a surprise to me when before the kayak was even bought, he had talked about how he was going to rig up a sail and venture out to surf breaks far out and typically reserved for those with boats.

Just as soon as we had paddled our new toy back home (we literally bought them at the Costco in Hawaii Kai and plopped them in the water to paddle back to my in laws house), we were back in the car and on our way to City Mill for the necessary supplies.

Blue tarp. Duct Tape. Twine. Bamboo pole. Pulleys. PVC piping = sailyak

A few holes drilled in the bamboo, lots of trial and error and we had ourselves one jerry-rigged little boat. The questions and anticipation were building as we lugged the thing down to the water- Would it work? How far could we go? Would we make it across the channel? Turtles? Tuna Bowls? So much was opening up for and there was only one thing left to do, jump in and give it a go!

Our little engineering masterpiece worked surprisingly well. We were able to sail out towards the open sea and then surf our way back in, the perfect combination of exercise, relaxation, sun, sea and surf. For a mama that is finding more and more of the usual hobbies a little more difficult, a trip out on the sailyak makes everything look a little more possible….

It just goes to show — where there is a will, there is a way! A little ingenuity and a MacGyver husband also helps :)

Posted by mama on August 11, 2010 in Mama Corner | Permalink | Comments (0)


“Thank you for your Heart”

While waiting outside of my chiropractors office an older gentleman rides up on his bike, plops down next to me and begins to touch my belly out of nowhere! Out of NOWHERE!!!

I wish I could better describe for you how this whole thing unfolded but he literally started touching me out of nowhere and grinning this half smile/ half creepy little grin. One thing he was wrestling with his shredded bike helmet as I sat their quietly looking at my magazine and the next his hands were all up on me! think I might have nervously laughed and said something like, “err…yeah…the baby is really growing huh”. He looks straight into my eyes with that silly little grin and says, “well you’re in the final stretch, this baby will be ready in just a few weeks!”

A few weeks! I’m not even 1/2 way there Mr. Stranger Awkward Belly Toucher Smiley Old MAN! When I told him I was only 4 1/2 months pregnant he started going on and on about how when his wife was “hapai” she only ate poi and carrots and she barely gained a pound. His wife who is now an ex-wife, pays for their 43 year old daughters alcohol monitoring bracelet, lives in Las Angeles with her new husband, is a pilates instructor, had an episiotomy with her second, teaches woman how to do kegels……ahh just stop talking and STOP TOUCHING ME!!!!

Mr. Crazy man went on and on and on about his life, his ex-wife, his bike ride up and down the coast of California, how he practices free love even at his old age, how his recent endeavors of “free love” have landed him with a displaced hip and sciatic and how I need to feed my baby poi. I can’t belive how much this crazy old bat managed to squeeze into the 10 minute wait. I feel like I was stuck there with this guy for FOREVER. Normally, I’m pretty good with these weird encounters. I figure the universe or something has placed this person in my path to teach me something but in all my honest searching I can not figure out why I was trapped in this never ending encounter.

Did I mention the numerous numerous references to my “abounding chi-chi’s” and how I would never have to worry about my baby starving because mama has a WHOLE LOT to offer?! He also went on and on about how Hawaiian style was to raise my OWN child and how he better not find out that I was trying to give my baby up to anyone, I needed to find myself a man to support me and my child. All this while confused passerbys glared at me with a “how dare she” look.

Me: “ummm but I’m married and very happy”.

Crazy Man: ” Well how long”?

Me: “about 4 years”

Crazy Man: ” 4 days, well apparently you’ve been sleeping around for longer than 4 days with chi chi’s and a belly like that”

Finally, FINALLY my miracle working chiropractor sweeps in to rescue me and officially seals his spot in my Top 5 favorite human beings EVER! To top it all off, Mr. Crazy was outside the office waiting for his turn as I gathered my things to leave. As I walked out the door he was there waiting, ready to grab my belly one last time. He looks me in the eyes, tells me my daughter is beautiful and thanks me for my heart.

“uhhh sure anytime ” translate “get me the HELL out of here and STOP TOUCHING ME!!!”

Posted by mama on August 6, 2010 in Favorites, Mama Corner | Permalink | Comments (0)


RUB ME!

Just about every minute of every single day I’m begging BEGGING my dear husband to rub my back. He occasionally obliges and to his credit does the best he can to massage out the kinks and aches of life spent crawling under high chairs and chasing after infants while also growing your very own little human being! It’s no surprise to me that most pregnant woman experience some degree of low back pain with all the changes that our bodies go through. I just feel like what I’ve been experiencing is a much higher pain level than what most women go through.

I’ve been having intense low low back pain where my legs feel almost paralyzed. If I try to move an intense surge of pain runs down my back into my legs and I get stuck in whatever position I’m in. It’s the worst when I’m sitting on the ground or moving from a laying down to sitting up position. I’ve tried to be really diligent about my morning stretching, drinking lots of water and exercising as much as I can but nothing has seemed to help.

Out of sheer desperation I finally broke down and went to a chiropractor in our neighborhood. After only a single adjustment my pain level went from almost unbearable at times to a mere annoyance. I was immediately able to sit myself up from the table without it taking forever and hollering out in pain. I’ve been going back to this miracle man every other day and I am amazed at how much better I feel. If you know anything about the spine, it was my SI joint on my left side in particular that is all out of whack. A few gentle twists with the right pressure and this puppy is good to go. I’m going to to keep up with these visits to make sure that I stay on top of this little issue and avoid falling back into the pain coma I was in for the past few weeks.

On top of all this wonderful chiropractic care, I’m also fortunate to have a friend in massage therapy school. I’ve been spoiled with pregnancy massages every couple of weeks and these also help with the little aches and pains. Heck, even if you aren’t pregnant I recommend splurging on a massage every once in a while. It feels incredible to pamper yourself and a massage is such a nice way to spent the afternoon!

Between these two approaches I’m hoping that the next 4-5 months will be smooth sailing in the back pain department. With everything else going on (morning sickness, fatigue….) it’s nice to wake up and feel like you can move!

Posted by mama on August 4, 2010 in Mama Corner | Permalink | Comments (0)


Dreaming

… of the day I can wrap my arms around my little baby and sing him/her a lullaby

… of a garden off my lanai that nourishes our little family in a special homegrown way

… of having my family over for the holidays and spending the afternoon in the kitchen making pies like I did as a little girl

… of watching my husband grow into a father and watching our love change as our family turns into a family of 3 (and 4, 5….)

… of only having to change MY babies diaper rather than the 24 diapers in 6 hours that I’m used to at work

… on that note, being able to stay home with my little one and be a part of all the diaper changes, feedings, naps and special memories throughout the day

Posted by mama on August 3, 2010 in Favorites, Mama Corner | Permalink | Comments (0)


Word of the Week: “Treasure”

Wrapped up in an oversized plush robe, relaxing on the couch after an incredible night of sleep curled up to my lovey and already inspiration has found me! It’s such a treat to have friends even miles away that are capable of warming your heart and jump starting your mind. True friends know how to stir your spirit without even trying and this quote posted by a dear friend some thousand miles away has done just that:

“Normal day, let me be aware of the treasure you are. Let me learn from you, love you, bless you before you depart. Let me not pass you by in quest of some rare and perfect tomorrow. Let me hold you while I may, for it may not always be so. One day, I shall dig my nails into the earth, or bury my face in the pillow, or… stretch myself taut, or raise my hands to the sky and want, more than all the world, your return.”

Today, I challenge myself to treasure.

:wealth (as money, jewels, or precious metals) stored up or hoarded

: wealth of any kind or in any form

: riches

: a store of money in reserve

: something of great worth or value

: a person esteemed as rare or precious

: a collection of precious things

This blog was created to be an outlet for a rambling, musing soul and so far has brought a sense of peace that I have been longing for. This particular quote really hit my heart. “One day, I shall dig my nails into the earth…..and want, more than all the world, your return.” A normal day.

I can remember not so long ago where all I dreamed of out of this life was a return to what I recalled as “normal”. In retrospect, I have learned that the highs and lows of life allow us to really treasure the gift of the present. What a life one could lead if only we learned to treasure the “normal”. To not take for granted the simple fact that we were given another chance as this world, that we woke up and our lungs continue to fill with air, our hearts still capable of loving and learning to embrace, appreciate, accept and now treasure.

As I start this new day, I will focus on the details and treasure the “normal” I am so blessed to have.

Posted by mama on August 2, 2010 in Mama Corner | Permalink | Comments (0)